Women Over 40: The Secret Of Attractiveness And Popularity Among Men

Neuroscientists Auggie Ogas and Cy Gadham studied more than a billion searches on the most popular pornographic sites to write the book "A Million Secret Thoughts". They discovered a lot of interesting things, for example, the most frequent request on the Pornhub site was MILF (mother). The book was published back in 2012, but even today MILFs are extremely popular.

For example, MILF is the third most popular search term on Pornhub in 2018.

So what's the deal? What explains this non-diminishing popularity? In fact, this sexual interest is based on a very rich psychology.

Scientists from the University. Kinsey was able to gather information from 4,000 men about their sexual fantasies and the women they are attracted to. This provided a unique insight into what our fantasies have to say about us.

Part of the popularity of MILF porn is due to the fact that many men are simply raving about the idea of ​​a dominant, strong woman. They found that the more straight people fantasized about mommies, the more submissive fantasies they had in general.

But it's not only that! It was also possible to establish that such fantasies are associated with increased anxiety and fear of attachment (that is, with a feeling of self-doubt and fear of not being in a relationship).

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So, for some men, MILF attraction actually stems from insecurity, because having sex with a woman who knows what she wants and is not afraid to ask can help keep anxiety in check. Moreover, it is much easier to please a woman if she shows how she can be satisfied.

I think this is good news for women who are worried about their age, right girls?