Kissing is a lot like sex in its uniqueness. Each person has their own preferences, which can change throughout their life. Gigi Engle, a sex instructor, trainer and a person with experience in kissing, asked women what to look for in order for a kiss to be perfect, and that's what I found out. There are many different ways you can take your kissing to a whole new level.
Asking permission to kiss someone may seem old-fashioned, but it turns out agreeing to kiss is exciting again. For some people, this is a sign of respect that will make them want to kiss you even more. 16-year-old Ann is sure of this. The norm, which is already 60 years old, completely agrees with it. Her best kiss was when she was 15 and consent was part of what made it so unforgettable. “No one has ever asked me before,” says Norma. "But, this guy asked, and I still remember that."
Tongue kissing (also known as French kissing) can be really enjoyable for some people, but you should make sure to insert your tongue into your partner's mouth slowly and sensually. Melissa, 25, from Illinois, agrees: "It's better to start with just the tip of your tongue, so you can understand the depth of comfortable penetration into someone else's mouth."
There is a different threshold of disgust. "Nobody wants to feel like they were licked by a dog," says Annie of the British Virgin Islands.
Kissing can be more than touching the lips. This is caressing your partner's entire face. “A good kiss will definitely be backed up by subtle gestures of bodily closeness and caressing hands,” says 21-year-old Gabriella from Pennsylvania.