Everything You Need To Know About First Dates And Starting A Relationship

2023 Author: Miles Ford | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-24 12:19

Have you ever thought about how much relationships change your worldview? Think about what kind of person you were before the relationship, and what you have become. To carry out this introspection, it is enough just to look back, mentally return to the beginning of the relationship. Remember how nervous you were on your first date? Or when you first kissed your partner? It was so exciting and a little awkward.

The content of the article

• 1 What is a relationship for you personally?
• 2 "Invisible" female labor
• 3 Differences in understanding basic things

What is a relationship for you personally? I

What does the word "relationship" mean to you? A certain number of dates? Regular sex? Hear the cherished: "I love you"? Or meet a person who understands perfectly? Everyone puts their own meaning in this concept.

Probably every adult recalls how he struck up communication with interesting people, feeling that they are special people. You communicated with each other, thinking that everything will be like this until the end. There comes day "x" when you have sexual intercourse, and after a couple of such meetings, communication comes to naught.

All why? Because each person perceives these meetings differently. Girls, for example, consider a delicious dinner with a glass of wine and a walk home to be a full date or even the beginning of a relationship. Whereas for guys, even sex does not mean that a relationship has started between people. Is your relationship about a month or two? Maybe it's not a relationship at all? Think about it, or rather, discuss it with your partner.

"Invisible" female labor2

That's bad luck! Just think, girls prepare so carefully for a date, carefully select clothes, do accompanying procedures, and all this can be for the sake of a meeting that the guy does not even seem like a date. Not fair, however. Often, ladies perceive the first meeting on neutral territory as a date. And guys need to take that into account to avoid giving false hopes.

Guys, want to get acquainted with the statistics that says how carefully and selectively girls prepare for dates? One American publication published the results of a mass survey of seven thousand women in which they shared how much they spend on average preparing for a date. The girls shared that on average they go on dates three times a week, spending an average of $ 200 on preliminary treatments and wardrobe updates.

Differences in understanding basic things3

As most men say, they don't give false hopes, it's just that women are too rushed. And haste leads to mistakes and rash decisions. For example, a couple went on a first date, then agreed to meet again. And at this moment the girl thinks that the trap has slammed, and there will only be more of these meetings in the future. That is, she already thinks that she is in a relationship with this young man. In reality, a man can simply expect to have dinner for the first time, and the second time already "persuade" the touchy for the bed scene. Rough, but honest.

And if the couple slept on the first date (which, perhaps, was the main intention of the guy), the girl does not even imagine that this could be the end of the "relationship" that she herself imagined. We bet one hundred dollars that the guy about this relationship is neither sleep nor spirit.